Are you ready to say screw the big wedding and do something that actually feels like you? California is one of the best places in the world to elope—whether you want an intimate beach ceremony, a quiet desert escape, or an epic mountaintop vow exchange.

But let’s be real—figuring out how to elope can seem overwhelming. Like, where the F do you even start? What’s legally required? And then, how do you make sure the day actually feels like you? 

That’s where I come in.

As a photographer who specializes in documentary-style elopements, I help couples create a seamless, stress-free experience—so you can focus on the moment, not logistics. This guide will walk you through everything you need to know to plan a California elopement, from legalities to making it a once-in-a-lifetime adventure.

Step 1: Decide on Your Elopement Vision

Before diving into logistics, pause and dream a little. Ask yourselves:

• Do we want a just-us elopement or a micro wedding with a few guests?
• What kind of scenery feels like us? Mountains? Ocean? Forest? Desert?
• Do we want an adventurous elopement (hiking to a remote spot) or something chill?
• Will this be a legal ceremony, or do we want a symbolic ceremony and handle paperwork separately?

Your elopement should feel like you, not like a stripped-down version of a traditional wedding. Whether you’re saying vows at sunrise on a mountaintop or celebrating with a full weekend experience, there’s no wrong way to do this.

Step 2: Understand California’s Marriage License & Legal Requirements

Marriage License Basics

• You don’t have to be a California resident to get married here.
• You must apply in person at any County Clerk’s office in California.
• Both partners need a valid photo ID (driver’s license, passport, or military ID).
• The marriage license is valid for 90 days from the issue date.
• The cost varies by county but typically ranges from $60 to $120.

Want all the details on California elopement laws? Check out my guide: California Elopement Laws: A Quick Guide to Getting Married

Public vs. Confidential Marriage License

California offers two types of marriage licenses:

Public Marriage License:

• Requires at least one witness
• Becomes public record
• Can be obtained in any county and used anywhere in California

Confidential Marriage License:

• Available only to couples already living together
• No witness required
• Marriage records remain private (only accessible by the couple)
• Must be filed in the county where it was obtained

Why choose a confidential marriage license? If you’re eloping solo, this means no need for a witness. It’s also a great option if you just want a little extra privacy around your marriage record.

Do You Need an Officiant?

Yes, unless you’re doing a self-solemnized ceremony for religious reasons. Your options:

• A friend or family member (They can get ordained online.)
• A professional officiant 
• A Deputy Commissioner for a Day (A cool one-day officiant program in California.)

Step 3: Choose the Perfect Location

California has some of the most breathtaking elopement spots in the world. Whether you’re drawn to the coast, the mountains, or the desert, there’s a dream location for every couple.

California Mountain Elopements

• Yosemite National Park – Iconic cliffs, waterfalls, and sweeping valley views.
• Big Bear Lake – A scenic alpine lake with lush forests and cozy cabin vibes.
• Lake Tahoe – Jaw-dropping blue waters surrounded by snowy peaks.
• Idyllwild – A charming mountain escape with towering pines and cozy, artsy vibes.

 California Desert Elopements

• Joshua Tree National Park – Surreal rock formations, Dr. Suess trees, golden sunsets, the chillest vibes, and fantastic stargazing.
• Palm Springs – Mid-century modern meets desert magic in this chic, stylish city in the desert.
• Death Valley – A surreal, other-worldly desert landscape of rolling sand dunes, vast salt flats, dramatic canyons, and striking cinematic scenery.

California Beach Elopements

• Big Sur – Dramatic cliffs, hidden beaches, and moody fog.
• La Jolla Cove / Coronado Island – Stunning ocean views near San Diego.
• Santa Barbara – Spanish-style architecture meets pristine beaches.

California Forest & Redwoods Elopements

• Redwood National Park – Towering ancient trees and peaceful forest paths.
• Sequoia National Park – Home to the world’s largest trees.
• Muir Woods – A lush, intimate redwood grove near San Francisco.

Step 4: Plan Your Elopement Timeline

Even if your wedding is small, a well-planned timeline makes all the difference.

A great elopement timeline should:

• Give you time to soak it all in—no rushing allowed.
• Allow for adventure (hiking, exploring, stargazing).
• Make room for you time—just the two of you.

Need more help planning your elopement timeline? I gotchu! I have an entire post dedicated entirely to making the most of your elopement day timeline.

Step 5: Book Your Photographer (That’s Me!)

Your elopement deserves photos that capture how it felt, not just how it looked. That’s where I come in.

• No stiff poses. Just real, unscripted moments.
• Film + Digital photography for that cinematic, nostalgic vibe.
• Planning help—locations, permits, and timelines.
• A calming presence—I make sure you feel comfortable and in the moment.

Step 6: Make It an Experience

Eloping doesn’t mean skipping the celebration! Here are ways to make it extra special:

• Pop a bottle – Champagne toast in the desert, on a mountaintop, or by the ocean.
• Don’t forget the music – For the ultimate experience, a violinist or guitarist for live music — or a tiny speaker with your favorite playlist for privacy
• Plan a post-ceremony celebration – A picnic under the stars, a nice dinner out, or cake and a glass of bubbly.
• Write personal vows – Say the words you actually mean, not what a script tells you.

Step 7: Handle the Logistics

Here’s your final elopement checklist:

• Apply for your marriage license
• Get any required permits
• Choose your vendors
• Plan your timeline
• Pack the essentials (rings, attire, vows, hiking boots)

And most importantly— let the day unfold naturally.

Eloping in California isn’t complicated—but having an expert guide and photographer makes it even easier.

If you want a wedding day that feels like you—not a performance—let’s talk.

Ready to start planning? Reach out here and let’s make some magic happen.