Feeling Nervous About Boudoir? You’re Not Alone.
Let’s be real—boudoir can feel intimidating. Almost everyone has some fears before their session, but here’s the thing: every single client walks away feeling empowered.
If you’ve been thinking about booking a boudoir session but something is holding you back, let’s talk about it! Nearly every single one of my clients are nervous about their boudoir sessions.
Here are the most common concerns about boudoir sessions and why it shouldn’t stop you from having this experience.
“I’m Not Photogenic.”
Reality: You don’t need to know how to pose or “look good” in photos—that’s my job!
My professional hair and makeup artist is a fucking beauty wizard. She works closely with you to nail down the perfect look for your shoot. Then I guide you through every pose, from angles to expressions, so you’ll feel (and look) incredible.
Boudoir isn’t about looking like a model. It’s about highlighting your favorite features and making you feel like a gorgeous, sexy babe. It’s capturing your beauty, confidence, and energy exactly as you are.
“I Need to Lose Weight First.”
Reality: Your body is already worthy of love and celebration—right now. Boudoir is about embracing yourself exactly as you are, no waiting required.
I pose you in ways that highlight your natural beauty and confidence. You’ll walk away realizing you were always enough.
“I Don’t Know How to Pose.”
Reality: Hellloooo! That’s why I’m here! You don’t need to know a single thing about posing because that’s my job! I guide you through every movement, expression, angle and pose, all while maintaining a safe, positive, uplifiting environment where you can feel free to channel all that inner sexiness you got.
By the end of the session, you’ll feel like you can take on the world.
“I’m Too Old for Boudoir.”
Reality: Well ain’t that some ish. Your body is worthy in every phase of your life, not just when you were super young. There is no age limit on confidence, beauty, or self-love. Boudoir is for everyone—whether you’re in your 20s, 40s, 60s, or beyond.
You deserve to feel empowered and celebrated at every stage of life.
“What If I Don’t Like My Photos?”
Reality: I am a expert at posing and lighting, so your photos reflect the best version of yourself.
And trust me—every single client walks away feeling like an absolute baddy. They feel beautiful, empowered, and sexy, and they love their photos.
I have an entire post on how to emotionally prepare yourself for a boudoir session, including how to normalize seeing photos of yourself.
“I’m Worried About Privacy.”
Reality: Your photos are 100% private unless you choose to share them. Most of the images you see on my website and social media are from model sessions, and I take client privacy seriously. If you purchase any digital images, your gallery is private and password protected. I also give clients the option to keep all images away from the internet.
Your images are for you, and only you, unless you say otherwise.
Your Fears Are Valid—But They Shouldn’t Hold You Back.
It’s completely normal to feel nervous before a boudoir session. But once you step in front of the camera, something amazing happens—you let go, you trust yourself, and you see yourself in a whole new way.
- You don’t have to be “ready.” You already are.
- You don’t have to change. You’re already enough.
- You don’t have to wait. The time is now.
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